Dating Married Women?
Lothario asked:
Ok, I know this question has been asked before, but I want answers directly to this. Okay, I know this is wrong but I’ve been kinda seeing a married woman for the past 9 months now and I recently met her b/c we live far apart. She’s a few years older than I am. She says that she’s separated from her husband and she’s waiting on a divorce. So anyway, should I just stop this now before it gets any deeper and how long does it take to get a divorce? Please don’t bash me on this, I know how it sounds already, believe me.
Ok, I know this question has been asked before, but I want answers directly to this. Okay, I know this is wrong but I’ve been kinda seeing a married woman for the past 9 months now and I recently met her b/c we live far apart. She’s a few years older than I am. She says that she’s separated from her husband and she’s waiting on a divorce. So anyway, should I just stop this now before it gets any deeper and how long does it take to get a divorce? Please don’t bash me on this, I know how it sounds already, believe me.
January 29th, 2001 at 3:03 pm
The last question with same details was DATING MARRIED MEN. Now its DATING MARRIED WOMEN.
You are nuts.
January 31st, 2001 at 9:12 am
you are inviting problems for your life time,Boss…back out immediately
January 31st, 2001 at 11:06 pm
You are in too deep already. She should have already got a divorce by now. Something sounds a little wrong to me.
February 4th, 2001 at 1:02 am
I’ll say the same thing I said to your female alter ego, Civic *****.
February 7th, 2001 at 7:44 am
I think it’s a really bad idea to date a married woman. I think you should wait until the divorce is final. For one thing, they might get back together. For another thing, his lawyer could make her declare money she spends on you as dissipation of marital resources. Thirdly you deserve a person who is free of entanglements. You might have low self esteem if you allow yourself to get in a relationship where a lot of energy of this person is going in to the divorce and former relationship. If they have kids–shame on you.
February 10th, 2001 at 5:59 pm
you should be meeting me! hehe. well, if you want her, go for it. let her answer her husband. it’s not your job to clean things for her. have a great *** and that’s it. let her clean her stuff. if she doesnt, thats too bad!
February 13th, 2001 at 8:07 am
dot do it!! stop dating her heck just tell the husband even if you get your **** beaten up you know
February 16th, 2001 at 6:58 pm
HEY, THIS QUESTION WAS ALREADY ASKED AND ANSWERED…SAME EXACT WORDS ON THE QUESTION.
So, same answer - all married people (well, most) say they are in the process of getting a divorce — and,guess what, THEY’RE NOT!!! They are just telling you that so that you think you have a chance with them…..
February 19th, 2001 at 11:41 am
If you were seeing her while she was in the proses of getting a divorce, and she is separated, then I don’t see it as wrong. If you had been seeing her before the divorce proceedings started, that would have been wrong.
On a side note, I love my husband so much,a nd he loves me! I will never divorce him, and I will not see other men while he is in Afghanistan… I am so anxious to have him back safe.
February 22nd, 2001 at 10:43 pm
Did you copy other parson’s question?
February 26th, 2001 at 6:51 am
you need to backout for that coz first that relationship is very sin for the god,
thank all,
please do that.
February 26th, 2001 at 3:30 pm
Well coming from someone who was seeing a married women as well as being married myself. If your serious about her keep the *** out of it. The pain and hurt you cause is not worth it believe me. Depending on the state but usually a divorce that is consential takes a couple of months. Secondly messing around with another mans women can get you killed. Just something to think about. If yall really care about each other time isn’t a factor.
February 28th, 2001 at 2:02 pm
hey, its your life. if she what you want than give her time. an a divorce could take years depending own what all there fighting for., if i was you , i wait til i was tired of it than if things kep dragging own , then get out, an jsut because she going threw a divorce doesnt meant she has to stay there til the end , good luck.
March 2nd, 2001 at 2:55 pm
she can divorce u for other guy mind it!
March 4th, 2001 at 9:28 pm
being a married woman and being in that same situation. i stayed with my husband. i can tell you now that she wont leave. i realised in the moment that i had to make a decision that i ultimatly loved my husband with all my heart, and have since grown stronger. i still talk to the other guy and he has since fallin in love and is doing very well. we have both moved on and are in healthier situations now.
i say…. move on.
March 7th, 2001 at 7:18 am
pretty stupid