Chloe asked:


Both had partners not married,when we met,he said he’d never leave hiswanted to be honest it was just fun.We fell in loveasked me2marry him.After while started living togetherplanning the wedding.Found him on dating internet site by accident went2go on netmouse hovered on the screen about single women blah,put his user name he had a profile.I trusted him100%so hurt.He said went on it cus his ex was on them before(she denied this).Left him for2days he promised he hadn’t met any1 just curiosity of who would like him.He refused to let me log onsee saying it would make me feel worsecanceled a/c.We got married no more lies.I found he’d blocked an email,checked she was on dating sites so she’d had his personal email, a mystery text,he lied said it was his m8had a go at me watched me sob.I tricked his m8admitted he lied for him,he told him it was an exI wouldn’t understand.He promised it was all covering from the dating site his ex must have give her the email/mobile,she denied.HELP!
Basically I found him on dating site before we were married, he said he had it when he was with his ex didn’t cancel it was only curious to what kind of person would like him. I got over it/believed him and we got married.
Then I found an email blocked on his a/c he reckoned it was off this site. He has a text of u/k number stating heard you’ve got married blah he said it was off his mate who lied for him, he went on and on making me cry saying I didn’t trust him. Then some time later his mate admitted he lied and so did he. He said his ex must have given the number to this girl off the internet dating site. I was furious emailed her to stay out of our lives she denied giving anyone number. She stated a woman off the site contacted her but she never provided anything.
Now he’s looking at **** all the time behind my back and he’s recieved an email he just said is spam regarding ‘married women illicit dating’. Hope this is better to little space to fit things in.