Why do guys like married women? AND if I know someone has dated/is dating a married woman, should I avoid them
Shirley Moscow asked:
does this mean that if they are with a married woman, that they are afraid of committing and are dogs and have no morals? BC lately, I have been involved with 2 guys who’ve been with/ are with married women. i find it disgusting and frankly dishonorable. I’m not sure about how I feel about monogamy, etc. but I think if you make the committment to MARRY someone, dont sleep around! So why are guys going and having feelings for these women even??? and… should I stay away?
does this mean that if they are with a married woman, that they are afraid of committing and are dogs and have no morals? BC lately, I have been involved with 2 guys who’ve been with/ are with married women. i find it disgusting and frankly dishonorable. I’m not sure about how I feel about monogamy, etc. but I think if you make the committment to MARRY someone, dont sleep around! So why are guys going and having feelings for these women even??? and… should I stay away?
January 25th, 2001 at 4:56 pm
cuz they are pigs.
yes avoid them. unless u like being a used piece of meat.
January 28th, 2001 at 12:12 pm
Hmmm, do you judge the married women these men are dating? You don’t make it obvious in your details, but I assume these men are single. If so, get off of your better than thou horse and give these men what they want, a mature, self-assured, **** woman. In most cases a married woman is this type of woman and men prefer them.
January 31st, 2001 at 10:21 pm
Guys like married women for many reasons. Being married answers the question - are they desirable. A sexual situation occurs in most women. Women in their thirties become the most sexually interested of their lives. For men it peaks in their late teens. Married women, if they marry near their age, then have a sexual interest peak while their husbands peak is passed. This could make them attractive to men outside the marriage.
As far as advice to you and what you should do, you need to decide. What is your goal with these men? Is it fun and not long term aspirations? Is it ultimately marriage? If you just want to have fun, have fun. If you want marriage in the end, you may distrust them in the future for their behavior in the past. If they don’t respect the bonds of another person’s marriage, they may not respect their own bond as well. People do change, but only if they want to or they see the need for themselves. Don’t be fooled about you being able to change them. Generally people don’t change much, but there are exceptions.
If you are in the relationship for a long term commitment, you have to ask yourself if you can deal with the distrust that will be there. If you don’t want to deal with that, move on and avoid the men that are involved with cheating women.